Consider Adoption

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to marchmommy - October 7

Alot of these girls that do give their babies up for adoption to people outside a proffesional organisation do so because they are desperate nothing to so with common sense it is just pure desperstion. Can you think back to the biggest problem you have ever had and remember how desperate you were feeling multiply that by 100 and then that may give you an idea of how some of these girls were feeling when they handed over their babies.

 

March_Mommy06 - October 7

I can relate to these girls! At first I wanted out of being pregnant! It is scary, but I still read up on a lot of stuff! I still am daily. Since you are a lawyer, if my babys father gets put in jail for statutory rape, can he still be made to pay child support? Thats the one thing I cannot find an answer to!

 

to marchmommy - October 7

What age is your boyfriend and what age were you when you concieved your baby?

 

March_Mommy06 - October 7

He is 21 and I was 17. I know he can go for statutory rape, but I was wondering if I can get child support while he is jail...that way he still cant have visitaion! (hes a bad person!)

 

to marchmommy - October 7

First of all what state do you live in? In most states the age of consent is 16. And since you were 17 he cannot go to prison for statutory rape. But to answer your question No he can't pay child support while he is in prison as he doesn't have any means of an income. However if he has savings in the bank then yes he does have to pay child support while he is in prison. As for visitation rights you cannot be made take your baby to a prison as it is an unsafe and unhealthy enviroment for a child so no he cannot have visitatipn rights while he is in prison if you don't want him to. I hop this helps you.

 

March_Mommy06 - October 7

There has been a case opened at the police dept. by my mom wanting to press charges, all we have to do is finish up paper work. I live in TN. Also, if I can prove him unfit, he cannot have rights, correct?

 

to marchmommy - October 7

He shouldn't have rights if he is unfit. But they may give him some supervised visits where by a social worker will attend his visits.Why is he such a bad guy? If there is anything else I can help you with just post here and I will reply. Take care.

 

March_Mommy06 - October 7

He has been in jail for drugs, not paying fines, and more drugs! I dont know on what grounds they would say someone is unfit, but I want to be 100% sure he never sees the baby. But I am also aware that he has to be stated on papers for me to get financial help I need. Its a tough desicion. My mom said tell them I am a whore and dono who the father is, Lol.

 

to marchmommy - October 7

If he was in prison on drugs charges there is no way they will let him your baby unless he can prove he is not a user (by going through a serious of weekly urine tests) and also that he is still not suppyling. Try not to worry no judge will let the dead beat near your baby once he is on drugs. I am goin away for the weelend leaving now so I won't be able to check this until monday but as I already said post here if you have any more questions and I will do my best to help you. Take care and try not to worry.

 

March_Mommy06 - October 7

Okay, thanks. Have a good & safe trip!

 

Jen - October 7

Of course we looked at international adoption but for many reasons want to adopt domestically for the second time. I am not here to argue so sorry if I insulted anyone or made anyone upset.

 

March_Mommy06 - October 7

Hey Jen. Its okay, it didnt bother me. I tried to stick up for ya! but some people on here are sorta rough

 

anon - October 7

Adoption isn't that easy! I recently saw a tv program where girls stay to have their baby adopted, they get to choose the parents, which is one good thing. When the day came for the girl to hand over her baby, she was heartbroken. The pain of giving up her baby was very clear...it was extremely upsetting to watch the show. I am not bagging adoption, just don't think the internet is the place to start. I think it takes a very strong person to be able to do that. I know i couldn't!!

 

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