He Did A Sail And Bail And I Just Found Out Im Pregnant

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Gabby - February 25

I just found out last night that I was pregnant. I am only 15, and the father is 20, almost 21. you see, heres what happened: CJ was my first, not only the first person that I slept with, but also my first love. He told me that he loved me, and that he wanted us to be together for a long time, and that he would never do anything to hurt me when we were going out for 5 months. and I slept with him on our 6 month anniversary. Well, the next day, he broke up with me, and told me that he didnt want a commitment. that he just wanted s_x, and he wanted to see other people, but still sleep together. I told him that I had to have a commitment if I was going to be physical with him... But he still didnt want a commitment. And said that he didnt want me to have anything to do with his life, and he didnt want anything to do with mine. Well, a month and a half later, after so many tears and nights of crying myself to sleep (corny, I know but still...) I find out that from that one night, our first and only night, that I am pregnant. And now I have a tie to someone who I dont want to have anything to do with. I havent spoken to him since the break up, and didnt plan on it. I dont want to have anything to do with him; espicially a kid. I have a firm pro-life belief though; there is no way that I am going to abort this child. I just dont know if I am going to tell him or not (he lives 2 1/2 hours away, so he wont see me) because I dont want to have him in my life again. Please, help me and tell me what I should do. Thanks.


Jessica - February 25

I think that it is always best to at least let him know that he will soon have a child in this world. Now, from the sound of it, you won't have to worry about him coming back into your life. He doesn't really sound like a winner there. (sorry) But, no matter how much you are hurting, and no matter how mean he was about it, he still deserves the right to know, the baby deserves the right to know who its father is. Again like I said, it doesn't really mean he will come back in your life, chances are he will say something stupid like it isn't his.


Julian - February 25

Gabby if you need a friend to talk to you can email me [email protected] I am glad you are not going to abort. I don't think he deserves the right to know he has a child at this point. That is your call.


becca - February 26

you need to tell him its his baby as well you wouldnt have a baby if he wasnt around!! you need to at least give him the chance to make a choice good luck it will be hard on your own be prepared


Gabby - February 26

Thanks. I think that I am going to tell him; but in a few months. I am going to give myself some time to let this sink in, and give him a little bit of time to grow up.



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