I Am 15 And Pregnant The Dad Wont Talk To Me

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tearston - April 26

i am 15 and pregnant my family is okay with all of this but thats not what i need my boyfriend wont even look me in the eye, i know he is scared but i really need him right now emotionally .... what do i say or do for him to talk to me?

 

Melissa - April 26

There is really nothing you can do to make him be there. At least you have your family, most girls don't have that or are too scared to tell them. I got pregant when my now husband was only 16 and right before I had our son, he ran off for awhile. Sometime, they just need some space to think about everything. It really hurt me, but I think it was best. Good Luck and if he is worth anything, he will come around.

 

Cara - April 27

there isnt much you can do right now. he needs his space to sort things out emotionally for him...everyone goes through that first emotional shock differently and while you feel like you really need him right now foricing him to talk to you might just push him farther away. Give him a little space and time and then try in a little bit to talk to him and see what is going on. My BD (then bf) acted different after I told him...he talked to me but he was never the same. We arent together now though and that is for the better. I was 16 at the time and he was about to turn 18. Rely on your familly right now adn talk to your best friend. My best friend was the person who helped me the most esp. through the first couple of weeks. While she hadnt been through what I was going through she was there for me 110% which is a lot more than I can say about BD.

 

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