Is It Possible To Stop My Girlfriend From Getting An Abortion

33 Replies
brandon - July 20

i found out that my girlfriend is pregnant by my sister. they're really good friends. when i confronted my girlfriend about her being pregnant, she admitted that it was true, and that she was getting an abortion whether i liked it or not. i dont want her to, because it's wrong. can she really do it without my consent? ill keep the baby myself if i have to.


ann - June 29

i have not a clue but if you ever need to talk e-mail me at [email protected]


Shelly - June 29

Ask her if you can go to see the counselor at the clinic.They can help you communicate better about it. You can also go see the counselor by yourself if she doesn't want to go with you. Good luck and stand by her and support her no matter what happens.


naithen - June 30

believe me talk to her dont let her make the same mistake my gurl did. now she is dead itz been 2 years and i have a baby. but i regret not stopping her you really need to talk to her.


kay - July 1

i have no idea, but good luck!


Meagan - July 1

Try calling a lawyer from your area or a pregnancy center. Talk to your girlfriend. Tell her that it's your baby too and you want to be a part of the baby's life. How old is she?? Does she still live with her parents? If so, go to the parents and tell them what's going on. Tell them that you want the baby and you will raise it and take care of it. Keep talking to her about it and being there for her. E-mail me if you want to talk. [email protected] Good luck. God bless.


brandon - July 1

me and my girlfriend are both 15.


b___bear - July 1

I personally don't agree with abortions. But my bestfriend has had one. I don't think that there is nothing you can do, its here body after all.


Angela - July 1

I don't know what state you live in, or what states are different. Here in Oregon a women can have an abortion whether the guy likes it or not. No one, not even parents, can stop an abortion from happening. I'm sorry to say that. I don't believe in abortions at all. I'm pregnant now and my boyfriend WANTED me to have an abortion, but I just couldn't do it. I'm not saying their wrong, it's just something I couldn't do. You are only 15 you still have your whole life to live for. Trust me, you don't want to be dragging a kid a long to hang out with your friends, do you? You lose a lot of friends when you have children. Besides, as you grow older, if you and her are still together, you can get married and move out and then have another child. I think what she is doing is smart. You'll hate it, but for now I think it's the best thing you can do. For all of you. That's just my opinon. I hope it helps! Good luck..


Sam - July 6

Hey-i think you should just talk to her and let her know what she is doing and how it does'nt just affect her but it affects you too and that it is your baby too. Explain to her that abortions are the wrong thing to do and that if she keeps the baby you will stand by her all the way..Find out some places that she can go to to get some advice about this-tell her to take some time to think about what she is willing to do and to realise that it is totally the wrong thing to do. Sam


jacy - July 9

i really dont know if you can. i mean, it's her body. if she doesnt want to carry it, then she wont. you could make it into a civil case, but if she gets an abortion before then, it wont do any good to sue her because the baby would be gone by then.


Renee - July 10

Be careful with the way you handle this situation. She may lie that she wants to keep the baby then someday she may say she fell down from the stairs and lost the baby or some freak accident


Jenny - July 12

you have to stop her... no doubt about it.. im not sure what state you live in and what the laws are about it.. but a baby is one of Gods greatest creations... a few months ago i thought i was pregnant and all of my friends told me to get an abortion.. but babies are my weakspots.. i just couldnt.. and then i found out my friend had 1 just the month before.. yeh u may lose sum friends when u have a kid but the friends that truly care will stay by your side.. you would regret the abortion the rest of your life but as soon as u see that lil baby youll kno u did the right thing by keeping it. dont let her do it. it causes so much pain n problems.. good luck..


brucen - July 14

Although it's unfortunate that you have no say in this, the bottom line is: It's her body, her choice. If she should decide to abort there is nothing you can do about it.


brandon - July 16

bottem line: our baby, our choice. i do have some say in this. we'll decide together.


steph - July 16

i was going to do that until i had an ultra sound done.i think once you hear the heart beat and actually see it on the screen it changes everything.


brandon - July 16

i just thought of something. all this time has went by before she threatened to kill the baby. if she was going to do it, she would have done it already.



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