My First Doc Appt

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tennesseewlkr07 - January 25

So the appointment I had on the 24th turned out to just be a pregnancy test! not what i thought it was going to be so i have filled my medicade and i should be getting my card within a week and my frist real ob appt is on feb.7th. Im trying to talk to kevin but his parents wont let me because my step dad threatend to kill kevin if he made me cry again! But i really want him to feel like he is apart of the pregnancy even though he has treated me like c__p! Am i wrong for feeling this way?

 

mrs.vegas - January 25

it isn't wrong to want the father of your baby to be a part of your pregnancy, but you can't make someone feel a certain way. does HE want to have a part in all of this? define 'treats you like c___p" because if was violent with you before you got pregnant, chances are he will be violent with you during your pregnancy and after. BUT- nothing will change that he is the father of your baby.

 

tennesseewlkr07 - January 25

well no he has never hit me or anything, but he broke up with me 4 days ago and already has another girl friend and told me that the only way i would get another man was to open my legs for him

 

KaseyA - January 25

He has to want to be part of the pregnancy. My fiance had a difficult time accepting the pregnancy in the beginning, but now he is thrilled and is completely involved. I'm sure he is just realizing that he is scared and he might be taking that anxiety out on you. Once he gets to understand more about your pregnancy maybe he'll change his mind and want to be apart of your child's life in every aspect.

 

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