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Scared - December 28

OK!! where do i start, I guess it was around the 13, i went over my boyfriends, and well... we didnt have any condoms, so he used the pull it out method. he pulled it out, and c_med right away, getting some on my panites. Its now, the 27, i should of got my period the 25. I checked for early signs of Pregnacy. this is what i got. Possible signs of pregnancy== No period other potential causes of this include fatigue, stress, hormonal problems, illness,(i have been stressed about this, i have been tired, and im not sure about my hormonal problems) Nausea and vomiting; this usually occurs two to eight weeks after conception (again, we did it on the 13. its now the 27) and can also be caused by such things as food poisoning (maybe the food i ate, stress which i have been having or infections i think i have an yeast infection.. well its discarge yellow) Enlargement of the br___ts; this is also seen during pre-menstruation Increased urination; i have been peeing alot this can also be a sign of urinary tract infection, stress, or diabetes (my dad had diabetes on his side, all i eat is junk food) Fatigue - maybe its because i go to sleep at 3 in the morning, Ptyalism (Excessive salivation) - i dont know, i think its picked up a little, but i havent noticed. Montgomery's Tubercules - those are little white bumps on br___t, which i have, but i have always had something like those. I cant have an STD i dont think, i've never had s_x, never rubed myself with anyone, or gotten anything. see with my bf, i did everything with him the first time. And, hes only done it once before me but that was a LONG time ago. i hope its cuz of stress and that i am going threw a growth spirt or something. Im 15, and s_x doesnt matter to me, i just love my boyfriend and it went a little to far with him. i've been with him for almost 2 years now, i am about to turn 16. My parents hate him, they dont want me to see him. My parents would literally KILL my bf if they found out. I would lose my home, my family, everything! My life would be over for a mistake. I am a Straight A, good girl and why does something that is looked down upond scare me so much. Im not ready to be a mom. im too young, but again i should of thought before i acted. Im so scared. I could never tell my parents. Also, how would i get an abortion, i've been pro life on that. But its either that, or no life for me, no family, friends, boyfriends, no home. AND its not really consider killing a child unless there is a heartbeat. so dont make us feel bad for those a$$holes on here. How would i get an abortion, how much would they cost, how would i get it done, is it totally private? Does anyone know!


amanda - December 28

alrite sweetie calm down.. i know how you feel .. you seem to be really stressed out just dont worrie about having an abortion you dont even know if you are pregnant.. hopefully he didnt prec_m in you and that he pulled it out soon enough.. sperm dies a couple minutes after its exposed to clothing so it should be ok that it got on your panties.. hopefully i helped you out <3


Sam. - December 28

This is one of those things you'll just have to wait & see. I don't think you're pregnant since you say he DID get out BEFORE he ejaculated. Yes, pre-c_m CAN get you pregnant but like Amanda said, maybe he didn't pre in you & even if he did, it doesnt always make you pregnant. Just relax & breathe for a second. Everything will be okay & I'm pretty sure your period will come as soon as you stop stressing over this. (Like you said up there, periods CAN be late due to stress). Hope that helped..


Grandpa Viv - December 28

You do need to calm down. Panic won't change a thing. You normally ovulate 14 days before you expect your period. The egg lasts only 24 hours. There's a fair chance that your egg was no longer fertile on the 13th. I think your post lists late period, feelings of nausea, b___st changes, frequent urination, unusual discharge as signs you are having. No gas or intestinal changes? Some teens manage to conjure up these signs even when they are not pregnant. Next weekend would be a good time to take your first home test. Planned Parenthood (1-800-230-PLAN) will give you confidential help, and so will the Health Department in your county. If you want more support you can mail me at [email protected] and I will help with anything else. Good luck!


aisha - December 28

why did u not take the morning after pill?


Stacey - January 3

Sometimes when you have s_x it messes up your menstral cycle. It happened to me last March when I had s_x for the first time. wait another week or so and take a test.


Jackie - January 4

If you are pregnant and thinking about abortion....think about it really hard. I MEAN REALLY THINK IT OVER WELL. I used to be one of those people who were totally against it until I was in the situation (at age 22) and I had an abortion October 31, 2003. It was a really tough make it simple...I was just breaking it off with my boyfriend of 5 years and I started seeing someone else and ended up pregnant. I didn't know what to do. My hormones were wild. I was still in love with my ex-boyfriend. So, I had an abortion ('cause it wasn't his baby). IT HURTS LIKE HELL TO HAVE AN ABORTION (physically...extreme pain and I cried the whole time) and mentally it screwed me up. I still think about it to this day....I wonder how old he/she would be. I had female cancer a couple of years ago too and was told that I might not be able to have kids on my own without help from a that weighs on my mind now since I am married and have been trying to have a baby for almost a year. I cry every night about having an abortion. It really wasn't the right choice for me but I didn't know that at that time. So, I'm begging you to really think about it hard. I'm not telling you that you shouldn't have one....I'm just telling you to really think it through and weigh the pros and cons. I know you're only 15. My mom had me when she was 15. She and my dad got married right away and they are still together 24 years later. My dad wouldn't let her have an abortion. She just dealt with the consequences and took responsibility for her actions. I had a wonderful childhood. My family didn't have a lot of money, but we had each other. Just do what is going to make you happy. Thanks for reading. Just think hard and pray lots. I'll be praying for you.


SmS - January 13

U really remind me of ME!! i'm so scared of that myself!! i know i should calm u down, but i need some1 to call me down! Well, i read an article about the Pregnancy Myths. and i read that it's not necessary to have an intercourse to get pregnant. so listen to that, i had my period on the 6th last month now it's the 14th and i didn't have my period!! and the only thing i did with my bf is everything but WITHOUT intercourse! i'm as stressed out as u girl! i didn't really have pregnancy symptoms except for increased urination but i think that's for the stress i'm living in! i hope it's only an illusion and my bf says we didn't do nething that makes u feel that worried! but i don't know. i mean my family would kill me and him! i'm really scared like u. hope some1 answers me and a__sure u.. GOOD LUCK to both of US :)


Melissa - January 28

What I can say about the abortion part is that you do not want to do that the pain you go through after it is done is horrible and I am not talking about phsyical, you will feel so empty inside and it is something you will have to live with for the rest of your life. I was 16 when I got pregnant and I had to give up alot. But when it comes to someone (not something ) living inside you and that someone is yours and a gift from our heavenly father, trust me you wont regret having this baby but the chances of you regreting taking this babies life is 100%. When I had my daughter it was scary I wont lie but it is the most wonderful thing in the world to hold that little baby in your arms. I would also like to say I worried about the friend thing to and all. But truely this is a test to find out who your true friends are. I lost a couple of friends but if they are truley your friend then they will stand by your side and be there for you. Wouldn't you really want to know who your true friends are anyway? The thing about your parents I soooooo understand I was so scared about telling them it was the hardest thing I ever had to do in my life. It will all be ok they love you and sometimes when you think they are going to kill me you are really surprised. My mom didn't talk to me for 2 months but everything worked out. Trust me don't make a decision you will regret. I will be praying for you


heather - January 28

you are pregnant tell someone


KM - January 28

a little bit of info. the heart starts beating as early as 7 wks or somewhere around there. If you are making such a life altering decision, I suggest you educate yourself well on all your options. Do some unbiased research on abortion, adoption, and motherhood.


Andi - January 31

First-Have you taken an at home test yet? I suggest you do. You can be confidential about it, they have self-check out at the grocery store. Second-To the person who said why didn't you take the morning after pill- you need a perscription, and if she is too scared to go to her parents, she is probably too scared to use their insurance to pay for it. Third- how can s_x not matter to you, it should-you could be bringing a new life into this world. I am definately pro-choice, it is your body and your life! Lastly-about the whole STD thing- even if your boyfriend has had s_x a long time ago with another person he can still have a STD and be a carrier- get checked out!


J - January 31

So, are you pregnant? Have been keeping an eye on this forum to see if you will keep us updated. Please do!!!



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