Question About The Life Of Sperm

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dueinjuly18 - December 6

Ever since I got pregnant, my friend has wanted to get pregnant. Her boyfriend and her have s_x on a regular basis, so she's been telling me she's taking the condom with the sperm in it after he ejaculates and inserting it inside of her. Would that even result in pregnancy? Should she worry about infection? I don't know what to really tell her. I'm not sure if sperm dies when it hits air (because of sperm donors, im sure it has to be in air for some time) and whatnot. Any information is greatly appreciated! Thanks !! Happy holidays!

 

Teddyfinch - December 6

well, is she trying to get pregnant without telling her boyfriend? that's kinda mean. and if the condom has spermicide on it, i'm not sure many of them would live.

 

dueinjuly18 - December 6

Yes she's trying to get pregnant without him knowing. She said that its just regular condoms, without spermicide. Thats one of the first questions that popped into my mind!

 

Franny - December 6

TELL HER MOM...WHY?!?! because her mom will be the one to be raising this child and paying for all the expenses. TELL HER BOYFRIEND...WHY!?!? because he should not be lied into having a child. This is just wrong, deceiving, stupid, etc. Your friend needs some kind of counceling. Can you imagine brining an innocent child into the world under such HORRIBLE circ_mstances. With this said, I do hope this post is a fake!!

 

Franny - December 6

And that you as her friend express NO CONCERN whatsoever is very bothersome as well. Is this how you got pregnant!?!?!?!

 

lunamoo - December 6

I agree with Franny. Girl, you seem so casual about this incredibly obviously stupid behavior your friend is doing....what is up with that!?!? I hope they have day care, offer financial support and make parenting cla__ses mandatory in your Middle School!

 

poo flinger - December 6

I think we need to break out a limbo pole here, seriously how low can this twit go? Tricking her bf into knocking her up is just plain wrong, and someone needs to slap some sense into this girl. If her bf is using a condom, its obvious hes not wanting to play daddy with her. This sort of thing should be illegal. Sounds like a great story for Jerry Springer though. Ugh, some people.

 

poo flinger - December 6

or even Maury.

 

jennifer_33106 - December 6

Well I think honestly, that she thinks having a baby would be fun. What alot of people dont realize is that during pregnancy and after you have the baby, it can trigger a womans horomones that gives her an urge to reproduce. That is why many times you will hear new mothers at about 3-4 months say that they want another. dueinjuly18, I am pregnant as well and maybe you could talk to her and let her know it is not all sunshine and roses. Having a baby is a huge responsibility and is honestly a terrifying thing. Never again will you just be you and be able to do as you please. I would highly suggest talking to her and trying to talk her out of it. If that fails you can always go to the BF directly and let him know whats up. The reason condoms have spermicide is incase of one breaking or the condom slips off. It is a backup. BUT how many girls have you heard of getting pregnant from a condom breaking?

 

dueinjuly18 - December 6

First of all, I don't feel like I should be the one to say something, all though I AM going to. It's hard because we're so close, and we've been close for 10 years. I'm not sure what I'm supposed to say/and or do. Thats why IM ASKING if there is a potential for her to get pregnant, if there isn't I would just tell her that she can't get pregnant that way and maybe she'd knock it off. I'm 18, and my fiancee have been together for 3 years. We decided to try to have a baby, because of losing our daughter. I know i'm young, whatever but it's our decision. So for you who said that is that how i got pregnant, no. I really think that if this is a forum for questions and answers, you should jump on and judge people like this. Anyways, YOURE on the website too on a teen pregnancy forum, doesn't say much for you either. Anyways, Since most of you are in agreement that you CAN get pregnant this way, I am DEFINITELY going to talk to her boyfriend about it. As well as her more. Thanks for all of your help. And Jennifer, good luck with your pregnancy! Hope it's healthy!!

 

dueinjuly18 - December 6

And franny, I OBVIOUSLY show concern if I actually bother to ask to see if she can get pregnant this way, I'm not going to laugh it off and bring a child into this world that I knew i could of prevented hopefully. I've been through enough abuse and problems with family, I wouldn't want to see an innocent child go through that. So before you say something like, take the time to consider that OBVIOUSLY if i'm going to ask about it and see if theres real potential, I DO show concern.

 

Skyeblue - December 6

dueinjuly18, relax at the people who expressed doubt/concern at your post like Franny. This sounds so stupid, yes STUPID. You say no where that you are trying to discourage your friend to get her own life together and to stop this stupidy that she is doing. Yes you came on here to ask a question, but for the love of God, the question is beyond they point. HAVE HER STOP HER INSANTIY!!!

 

lunamoo - December 6

What every, dueinjuly18, the question is irrelevent. You need to figure out how to pyschologically help your friend at this point! Who cares how long sperm live, I mean really!!!!!!

 

PreciousBaby19 - December 6

Even thouhg she can go and try and talk her friend out of it. there is not hing possibly she can do to change her mind. She needs to skip trying to be a friend and buddy who is going to keep this secret and go and tell her boyfriend. She will hate you for a while yes, but this is ridiculous. You can tell her that she will be in every way apart of your childs life and it might make it easier on her to stop but she isn't going to change her mind. Its going to effect her life. So instead of worryingabout her being mad at you or even hating you. Do something about it. And yes the sperm can get pregnant that way. So your question has been answered. Keep us updated.

 

EMMA2 - December 7

It can def. work. The chances are not great but possible.Your friend is a total conniving ho bag byt the way!

 

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