Some Thoughts Please

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XxbebexX - November 22

ok, so im 19 years old, and my last period was on october 28th, and my AF is usually 28 days, sometimes every 27days but very rarely. So on November 13 me and my boyfriend, who i've been with for 3 years now, had s_x with no protection and he didnt pull out. that was on one of my fertile days, and i did have clear/eggwhite CM on that day and the next day. So im guessing i ovulated the day we had s_x, or the day after? well my br___t got very sore about 11dpo and my period IS due november 25, and my br___t do get tender about a week and a half BEFORE my period, well they are tender, BUT...they are EXTRA EXTRA tender. I mean if i touch them even a little it hurts so bad. i been feeling little pains in my belly, like cramps, off and on, and on the right side i been feeling almost like tugging or somethin...dont know how to explain it lol. im not nauseated or anything.... Well just let me know what u guys think. If my periods late, i def will be testing!! and if i am pregnant it wouldnt be bad, my boyfriend jus got a condo and we have the money so its not like we will be in a hole or anything, jus to let u guys know so u wont have to ask lol....thanks guys!

 

XxbebexX - November 22

CORRECTION lol sorry...i ment we had s_x on NOVEMBER 8TH! sorry bout that lol

 

R__ - November 22

well the clear/egg white CM is your fertile period and yes you could have ovulated that day or the next. Also sperm can live up to 3 days. sore bbs is a sign. Missing period is a really good sign as well. if you have any other signs before your period is due there are a few tests that detect it before you miss your period. make sure to use morning pee. from the sounds of it you are pretty well aware that you could definately be pregnant. so just test around the time of your missing period.

 

PreciousBaby19 - November 23

You have a high chance of pregnancy and I'm sureyou know that. I would say that since your b___bs are normally sore as a PMS sign that you shouldn't be focusing on them that much. Take into account that they are a bit sore than normal and make sure you make a note of it somewhere. As for the little pains in your stomach if you are pregnant you wouln't be having anything like that for a while. You can have cramping in early pregnancy but that is also a PMS sign. The only way to be sure is to take a pregnancy test. i'm glad that you are somewhat raedyfor the responsibility of a child and i think in a way you were kinda testing fate. Like if it happens this time then its ment to happen. I can only a__sume that because you had s_x unprotected. Sure you've been together for a while and you are kinda ready to be parents and all. With the basic needs a child can require but make sure you are really ready for this because you get the whole 18 year package. Just make sure its what BOTH ofyou want. Sit down and talk about what you would do if you were to end up pregnant and if he isn't feelign keen on yuo being that way then i would get on a form of birth control. Its a life changing decision..lol not trying to preech. Just seems your testing the waters. Since you know its your ovulation day on november 8th. just take a test and let us know. Goodluck and I hope you get the result you want.

 

XxbebexX - November 23

thanks u guys...yea we talked about it alot! I've worked in daycare and with infants n toddlers since i was alot younger. i kno how it is to some degree lol...as for my boyfriend...he love children, and is very excited at the thought of us having a little one runnin around crazy lol... if i miss my period i will test and let u kno wat happens...in not too worried...im doubting that i am but u never know!...thanks

 

PreciousBaby19 - November 23

Well goodluck and I hope you get the result you want!! If your not then are you going to start trying? Or let it happen when it happens?

 

XxbebexX - November 23

umm, probably not...if it dont happend then i think im ganna wait a little longer, and if it happens then it happens.But i'll let you guys know wat happens by tuesday...

 

PreciousBaby19 - November 23

Kk and goodluck!! and good choice on waiting a bit longer ^_^

 

XxbebexX - November 24

yea...i think ima probably ganna get my period on time cuz i keep havin cramps. even though i never get cramps till like the day before my period, i been having them for the past 4 days! not fun lol.WE SHALL SEE lol

 

XxbebexX - November 24

ok so i jus woke up with cramps and the feeling like i started AF...so i ran to the BR cuz i didnt wanna mess up my undies lol...well...no AF. i still got one more day to wait though!! JEEZE

 

hope-31 - November 24

it sounds like you could be pregnant.even if you had s_x a bit before o the sperm can live up to 2-3 days later.cant wait to hear what happens. have you started any spotting?that may be implantation,if that happens take a test cuz the test will show you by then.

 

XxbebexX - November 25

i havent had any spotting...my period is supposed to be do the 25th...n as of right now, and all day basically, im still havin cramps. but now ma backs starin to hurt...not real bad like OMG bad lol...but between the cramps n my back...it aint fun.it feels like ive started my period n i keep runnin to the BR but NOTHIN. i mean sometimes i start my period a day early rather then 28 days its 27, but only sometimes...so i wasnt shocked when i THOUGHT i had started. n i havent. but it sure does feel like i have! n im still havin lotion like CM....i jus want a fe wdays to go by so i can see if i get AF or not lol...i jus wanna kno but i dont wanna wast money on a test and then start my AF a few hours later lol knowin my luck...well i'll keep u guys updated!!!

 

PreciousBaby19 - November 25

Sometimes when your mind is sooo anxious to start..lol and you buy your money on a test...see a negative..lol and then you start!! I know thats happend to me a few times..but its always reasuring even if you do start because then you always wounder if it was soo late then maybe you were preg..but you weren't. lol i know its tough. hang in there. I think you'll be fine ^_^

 

XxbebexX - November 25

well...not period so far....i think ima jus get a test but not test till a little later, jus in case...i dunno lol

 

XxbebexX - November 26

im gettin a test tomorrow morning...no period or spotting, still have cramps but not as bad...so i think im jus going to test 2morrow...it feels like i started my period....no blood though....

 

another Karen - November 26

Hello, sorry to b___t in, was just reading your post. Just wanted to let you know that my first pregnancy I felt like my period was coming, I can't remember how I felt this time, I don't think it entered my head as I was 99% sure I was pregnant way before it was due anyhow. Best wishes either way

 

XxbebexX - November 26

aww no need to apologize, feel free to add anything! it helps....thanks for telling me, im still waiting to see...im a day late now...still feels like im on my period but when i check....NOTHING!! but yea my boyfriends taking me to get a test and im going to test in the morning....i bet it will be negative though lol...who knows!

 

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