Teen Pregnancy And I Need Help

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YoungMama14 - January 6

Hi , well im here on kinda a werid note. but im 16 years old and my boyfriend is 15. like any other teen we had s_x but its not like its a hit and run we've been together for 2 years and i recently gotten pregnant i dont know how many months i am but i took a dollar store test and then i took another one infront of him cause he could believe it. but both were positive and showed up rather quickly but no one knows that i am not even my mom and ive been stressing a lot and he wants an abortion and im not ok with that im trying to change his mind and tell him help me tell my family and his but its just not getting to him but his he really wants one because were so young and i just need advice on how to convince my " boyfriend " to keep it or at least adoption and how to tell my family cause i never ever disappointed them. HELP PLEASE AND SORRY IT WAS SO LONG


Grandpa Viv - January 6

Sorry you find yourself in this situation. When was your last good menstruatioin and when did you start feeling different? I think you need to break the news to your mom first - the boyfriend is immature and in a panic. Mom, do you want the bad news first or the good? The good news is you are going to have a grandbaby. The bad news is that I'm pregnant. Your adoption idea might be a winner, especially if it puts you ready to return to school in September. The reason that so few babies are available for adoption is that the birth mom inevitably bonds and is unwilling to give it up. You will not find any trouble finding good parents in desperate need. Come back and tell us how you broke the news and how the family takes it. GL!


Jessica215 - January 7

We were all young once and understand what it means to be teenager. I am sorry to hear that you are in this situation. As big as a blessing this can be, it also can become a stress factor for one who is not ready to be a parent. I agree that abortion is not the way to go but your mom needs to know asap. I agree with Grandpa Viv that there are parents who are willing to adopt and give your baby a loving home. Not to sound inappropriate in any manner, my husband and I have faced infertility for 10 years and we are ready to adopt. If you decide adoption is right for you, we would love to talk to you and your parents to discuss an adoption plan. We have an attorney who would be able to a__sist in this process. If you would like to discuss this further please email us at firststepadoption at gmail dot com.


[email protected] - January 15

Hello, if you decide on adoption we would love to talk with you. You can email me and we can talk. Take care and God Bless you.


Monique7 - January 20

Wow, so now it has been a few weeks since you have posted this...Have you told you mom yet? Please do not kill the baby. I had an abortion once and have regretted it ever since:( Plus there are so many people looking to adopt including myself. Do not let your boyfriend pressure you into doing something that you will regret.


sandgmom - March 4

I am not sure if you have found the help you have been seeking or not...but I hope you are getting lots of support. My husband and I are hoping to adopt. We have a video on youtube about us....:) it is under "kirstenandadamadopt"...it shows a bit about us, if you are seeking a family to help. We are open and honest, and would help any way possible.



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