To Ellie Mae

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Anne - May 10

Hi Ellie Mae, thank you so very much for writing to me. This was such a wonderful post for us as we have been searching for an open or semi-open adoption plan as you know. First I have to comment on your daughters name. LucaBella is SUCH a beautiful name! The second thing that caught our eye was that you were having another baby girl. We raised our godchild from birth until 3 years old so we never knew anything different. :) We not only as adoptive parents would want an open or semi-open adoption based on your wishes but her relationship with LucaBella would be a wonderful thing. You would be a very important part of our family before the birth of the baby as we get to know you as well as after. Ellie Mae, we have an adoption website which is: http://mrsgianni.tripod.com/adoption/ Just paste that into your browser to see our story. I have alot of photos of us as well as our family and our home that I also want to share with you so be sure to email me so that I know how to reach you and we can begin talking. I really want to know what your hopes and dreams are for your new baby. This is so important to me. We are the kind of people who want you to always be a part of who we are. This type of relationship is important to us as my Mom had a baby at 16. Back then she had no choice but closed adoption. This broke her heart. She waited 21 years to meet her son. We all have a wonderful relationship with him but no Mom should ever have to wonder if she made the right choice. It is because of my Mom that we knew we wanted open adoption. Please take a look at our website and email me after you see it so that we can talk, ok? I hope you are doing well and I look forward to speaking with you and getting to know you. My email address is [email protected] OR [email protected] Either one is fine. Take care and write soon. Anne & Paul

 

becca - May 10

if u would like to further this there is a site called www.bolt.com and it has it own adoption bored :)

 

Ellie Mae - May 10

I just got done reading your web site about adoption. I was amazed by it.I was really shocked that you once had a daughter named Bella and my 3 year old daughter's name is Luca Bella ( Must be some kind of sign that you might be the right mother and father to my unborn baby girl ) Im very pleased to hear that you are willing to do an open or semi open adoption. Alot of couples out there do not want that because they are afraid the birthmother will end up on their doorstep years later to take her baby back.I think it's important for the child to know who brought them into this world, I also think it's important for the birthmother to know her boundries, and not to cross them.I would hope whoever adopts my baby would allow her to know that I am not just giving her away because I don't want her or don't love her. Im simply doing it so she can have a better life that I can not provide her with at this time. I would like her to know about me and her father and little sister.I would love to share photographes with her and vise versa. I would love for her to know as much about me as she can, my love for horses, and the love for my ranch that I own in Montana.I do have an attorney who will handle everything that needs to be done..I am not going through an adoption agency, because that costs alot of money for the couple who wants to adopt, and I think it's wrong.I saw your p[icture and you two really look like your truely in love and you look very happy.Bella is a cutie pie and im very sorry she is not with you. ( She should be in my opinion ) Like I said in my earlier post, I know this will be the hardest decision of my life, but deep in my heart I know it's the right one for me at this point in my life. I talked to my husband the other day and he supports me 100 % . I will e-mail you very soon, I added you to my address book. It was very nice chatting with you. Give my warmest hello to Paul. c~ ya ...... Ellie Mae

 

Ellie Mae - May 10

I forgot to mention whoever I choose to adopt her is most welcome to be there at the birth and the days following her birth. I do have two requests and that is I would like the new daddy to have the pleasure of cutting the cord, and I would like the mommy to be the very first person to hold her in her arms. I know that's a strange request but it's important to me. I know im being silly. Anyways hope to hear from you.

 

Anne - May 10

Dear Ellie Mae, thank you for your kind words. What is really strange about this in addition to the names LucaBella and Bella is that I have a long lost friend that moved to Montana and they JUST BARELY tracked me down and called me the other day after 10 years! This happened out of the blue. We had no connection to anyone in Montana otherwise. We have always wanted to visit Montana as we travel ALOT. We talked about going to visit our friend sometime. The area code where he lives is 406. I would like to get our phone number to you via email so that you can call us collect. I don't want to post it on here. My husband just read your post and he would be HONORED to be the person to cut the cord. He is a very emotional guy. For instance, when Bella said Da-da when she was a baby he cried. He really got close to her and it was hard for him to lose his little co-pilot. I knew he was the one when I saw how kind and loving he was to his own mother. That was how I knew I got a good man. He is the guy who sends my Mom flowers on my birthday thanking her for me. I couldn't ask for a better person to spend the rest of my life with. You're right, we are very happy. :) We would love nothing more than to be in the delivery room. This would be very important to us as it is important to you. We also would like to spend some time getting to know LucaBella. As for the baby knowing who you are, we would want nothing more. I only wish my Mom didn't have to wait 21 years before my brother got to know what a wonderful person she is. I hope to hear from you soon via email because if this is going to happen we have ALOT of preparation to do. Could you please let me know when your due date is as I don't think that came up :) I think we practically owned stock in Baby Gap when Bella was born and she barely got to wear all her infant outfits. I have boxes and boxes of Baby Gap clothing just waiting for the right little pumpkin :) Let's get in touch soon. Please email me. Hope you are well and we really can't wait to get to know you. Anne :)

 

Ellie Mae - May 10

Thank you for writing back, I thought I put my due date on the first post....Hmmmm guess not.....lol ...... Im due June 14th. That story you told me about your friends was so amazing ( Again another sign ) I live in Whitehall Montana at the base of Bluebird Mountain.I live out in the boonies, the main road is miles and miles away. I have a ranch and I raise and breed morgan horses. I train and board them for people who have no room to keep them. I have been riding horses my whole life since I was Luca Bella's age 3 years. Luca Bella just started to ride and she is taking after her mommy, she's pretty good. When she gets a little older she's going to start barrel racing just like I did. Right now I got my 16 year old neice living with me while her parents are away in Germany, boy teenagers are alot of work.Tell Paul I said hello and I hope I get the chance to meet him someday as well as you.Well I better get going, theres alot of work that needs to get done here. Luca Bella needs a bath after playing in the mud....lol She's messy and pretty smelly....lol By the way my area code is also ( 406 ) and my zip code is 59759 Take Care and God Bless :O)

 

Ellie Mae - May 10

Anne... I was just curious what names you got picked out for a little girl? Well as much as I hate to go I must go get some work done. I will get on here later to see if you have replyed to my posts. It's really hard to find nice people on here to talk too. Have a wonderful day :O)

 

Anne - May 10

Hello again :) Our friend lives in Dixon, MT - I just peeked in my address book. I have some more pictures I want to email you. Pictures of our home, family, etc. There is so much I want to know about you....please email me so we can talk. ANNEP[email protected] is the email address but if you have AIM I am ANNEPAULVT of course. As for baby names, what do you like? In the past we have discussed Angelina, Francesca, Olivia, Delia, Emily. What about you though, any names you have in mind? Email me :)

 

Ellie Mae - May 10

Anne..... I just sent you a quick e mail, I hope you got it. Keep in touch :O)

 

Anne - May 10

Ellie Mae, I never got your email :o( What is your email address so that we can talk? If you don't feel comfortable adding it to this posting then please try my other email address which is [email protected]

 

Anne - May 10

Ellie Mae, someone is being really nasty to that other lady named Cheryl on the other post that we had where Cheryl said hello to you also. I feel really bad and someone went and used MY NAME and asked her what she was doing in my post. People are really being rude in here. Now I see why it is so hard for adoptive parents to meet anyone on here because some people have nothing better to do than start trouble. I just hope you are real and that I get the email from you. This is getting painful now that people are using my name and picking on poor Cheryl. This is something very serious and obviously whomever did that has not a care in the world for anyone. I now need to prove to you that WE are real and that we are not the ones who posted that nasty note. I would like to give you my phone number via email. Anne

 

Cheryl - May 10

This message is for anne. Ellie mae picked us and we are going to be the new parents to her baby. She don't want you to feel bad so she ask me to write this note to let you know that she chose us. No hard feelings I hope. We have waited a long time for this moment. Someday maybe your time will come. I will send you pics of Ellie Maes baby when it is born. We are leaving for Montana a week before the baby comes.

 

becca - May 10

i think this adoption this is amazing honestly i thimk all of you who take part in this process r truley brave and amazing

 

Cheryl - May 10

Anne, I did not post that we are adopting the baby. It is the person who keeps posting our names trying to cause trouble. please do not listen to any negative comments because they are not me. Love ya xxx Cheryl

 

To Anne - May 10

This is Cheryl's mother. Ellie mae has not made a decision about who is going to adopt her baby, whoever is trying to upset Cheryl and Anne need to quit because it is not going to work

 

Ellie Mae - May 10

Gosh I leave for a few hours and when im gone all hell brakes out. whoever is pretending to be Cheryl, please knock it off and grow up. As for Anne I did e mail you and im sorry you did not get it. I will post another e mail on the other address that you gave me.Im sorry but I am not going to post my e mail address on this site because I don't want all these fake people having my address.Whoever posted to Anne saying she was Cheryl, and I picked Cheryl to be the mother of my unborn baby, that's a bunch of bull. I have not picked anybody yet. Please don't post lies on here, this is a sensitive forum and I don't want feelings to get hurt.Lets just grow up, whoever is doing this....... I agree with Cheryl's mother..... I think Anne & Cheryl are to strong to buy into your c___p. Anyways I will keep in touch.....Anne I will send you a message via e mail in just a few minutes. Take Care... Ellie Mae

 

Ellie Mae - May 10

I figured out why you didn't get my e mail address..... I had [email protected] forgot to add the E in your name.......Sorry

 

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