To Siara Only Nobodyelse Please

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Hayden - May 18

I have been reading all the posts in the forum that you started. Im not going to attack you or judge you in any way. Im just very very curious about why you terminated your pregnancy? There was different options you could have taken. There are alot of couples out there who cant have kids, and are dreaming about having a baby like the one you used to have.Im just asking why did you terminate this pregnancy? I hope your doing well with everything. Take Care :O)

 

Hayden - May 18

Is this the real Siara?

 

Siara - May 18

hi, well on march 19th one of my friends ex boyfriend forced himself on me. i told my parents and it was reported, he was arrested so its all ongoing. i found out a few weeks later i was pregnant even though they took steps to prevent it. i think if you ask anyone whos been there they will tell you that its like you just been violated all over again and its there all the time. i know its not the fetuses fault i was raped but it wasnt mine either i didnt ask for this either. i couldnt leave the house my mom had to drag me to the doctor and they said i had depression and post traumatic stress disorder and i had stopped eating completely and i lost 17 pounds in a week. my doctor said they strongly advised me to have a termination and said they thought if i continued the anxiety would cause major problems o my mental and physical health, plus on top of that when my attacker came to trial. i still have that to face, but a part of it has gone with the termination. Thats what i meant by feeling relief, and strange meaning relief is not the most common thing to feel after a termination. not ''bragging'' as someone accused me of. id like to thank you for talking to me like a human being. I cant believe this place. i sent a email to the editor of the site about all this abuse, not just the abuse ive been getting but all the other stuff too.

 

Siara - May 18

and no that wasnt me - just a sad child with nothing else to do - how did i know that would happen? i hope my post answers your question.

 

Hayden - May 18

You don't need to explain to me what it's like to be raped. I am 33 years old now and when I was 17 years old I was raped by a friend.I know what your going through. As for the people on here just ignore them soon they will get the picture and go away. I didn't think that last post was you, but I had to make sure. I couldn't imagine someone saying that stuff in that post. Anyways don't let them get to you. If you ever want to talk feel free to post me a message. I would put my e mail address on here but I don't want every moron on here e mailing me.Have a wonderful day and stay strong. Take Care :O)

 

Siara - May 18

thank you so much Hayden, that means such a lot. Im so sorry that happened to you. i think my email address is somewhere on the first thread i posted. I havent had any emails from the morons on here because they like to hide behind 'anonymous'. nothing they can say will hide the truth of what happened to me, i know its true so if people dont believe me then so be it. Thanks again

 

Hayden - May 18

No need for thank you's just doing my job as a fellow rape victim.Hope everything is going good for you. You are in my thoughts and prayers. :o)

 

Hayden - May 18

@~~(~~~~ A flower to brighten up your day. Enjoy :o)

 

Siara - May 19

Thank you Hayden :-D -X-

 

someone whos against aboortion - May 19

ok siara,im totally against abortion but i just want to say im sorry about what you went through,i hope this bloke goes down for what he did to you.

 

rape is no excuse for abortion - May 19

My sister was raped when she was 15 yrs old by a man in his 40's. Don't you think that would be a hard situation? Well, my mother tried very hard to get my sister to have an abortion or give the baby up for adoption. My sister decided that this was her baby and she was keeping him. I thank God that even though she went through a living HELL she had love enough to keep this precious baby! He is 19 yrs old today. She had courage beyond belief to do the right thing!

 

Kali - May 19

so because she was raped by someone younger it wouldnt have been hard??? Grow up for gods sake. Everyones different and how dare you imply that it was easier for her than it was for your sister. Did you not read about all the health problems as well? My god what is your problem with her? And lets face it, it was your sister NOT YOU, so unless you and your sister have the very same mind you do not understand what she went through.

 

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