What If My Bf Doesnt Wanna Be A Dad

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terry - May 2

Im 14 and i think i might be pregnant by my 16 year old boyfriend. But after we had s_x he cried cause it was sudden and we didnt use any type of protection and he was afraid of being a dad. he then told me that if he had gotten me pregnant that he would commit suicide. if i am pregnant then wut should i do?

 

katie - May 2

im 14 and my bf is 16 too....its not like guys to cry...but best thing to do is take a pregnancy test or even better go and c ur doctor...if ur from england u cud go to the brook and get this all done for free...but until u no u r pregnant i wudnt say anything to him...u need him to b there for u...im sure he wud commit sucide on u..if he loves and cares about u but take care xxx katie

 

terry - May 2

thanks katie, dont live in england but still great advice

 

to terry - May 2

terry why didnt you get yourself the morning after pill,you can take it upto 72 hours after,i suggest you find out if you are pregnant if not get yourself on the birth control pill.......good luck!

 

:)(: - May 2

all i have to say is he should have thought of that before he had s_x. because if you are its his responsibility and he needs to deal with it if he is old enough to have s_x then he is old enough to be a dad

 

Cara - May 2

hey, sometimes guys say weird stuff like that. but if you are pregnant and you are really worried about him i would talk to his parents before you talk to him that way they can be on the look out for strange behavior and make sure he gets help if he needs it. it could just be his way of pre-pressuring you into an abortion though so just make smart decisions-its not the end of the world if you are pregnant even if it feels like it. if your period is late then i would take a home pregnancy test and go from there. good luck!

 

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