What Should I Do 18

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Amanda - March 21

hi my name is amanda i am 18 years old and live in virginia beach i have an 8 month old baby girl and am expecting triplets although i went to the er yesterday and one of the babys fanished what should i do please send me advice or post is my email is [email protected] or [email protected] or [email protected]


MrsA - March 21

Can u explain what happened?


Julia - March 21

I am so confused!!! Are you saying it vanished? Sweetie you can email me at [email protected] or IM iluvdiamonds74


Audrey - March 21

Amanda- A baby can't just vanish. It's possible that when you went for the ultrasound they couldn't see the third because it was underneath the other two. Or you only had two to begin with and the doc made a mistake. Best wishes!


rae - March 21

just to add a bit of insight, babys can vanish... have you not heard of a vanishing twin??? same as her story up there, someone is diagnosed with multiples and one vanishes... either pa__ses or what have you. look it up. and i'm sorry that that happened amanda and it looks like you're in a rough situation... but triplets, what a rareity!! good luck with all the decisions you make and i sure hope you have a good support system behind you.


Amanda - March 21

what should i do


Julia - March 23

Baby was hiding..............:) They were all still there. Amanda email me


rae - March 23

im not sure what you mean when you say 'what should i do'. i think the only answer i can give you is if you dont have enough family support or support from the father to keep these babies since you already have one, there is always the option of adoption, its selfless and you would be able to give your babies a wonderful life even though you cant be the one who provides for it, you would be the one who made it all possible. if you want to talk my email is [email protected] ive helped a few friends through the adoption process, and even if thats not an option for you, which it isnt for everyone... i can help you get a few govt programs to help you out...


leah - March 23

a baby jst cant vanish...


rae - March 23

i beg to differ on you all's 'babies can't vanish' notion. like i said before... LOOK IT UP. look up "vanishing twin". they do.



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