What Should I Do Pg1301263359

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thrilling - March 27

I am a fourteen year old and pregnant, Adoption is hard, Abortion is terrible and keeping it will be troubles, what do i do?? This is what my boyfriend and I wanted for a long time, but now that I am pregnant Im just not sure if i can handle it


Grandpa Viv - March 28

This is not a decision a 14 year old should be handling on her own. Your parents are going to be affected financially and emotionally by this. They are part of your team. Please try to clue them in at the earliest opportunity. GL!


Nickelbackgirl - March 28

I can't even imagine the position you are in. I am sorry for you. 14 is very young to have a baby. You still have 3-4 yrs of high school left not to mention college. How are you going to buy clothing and toys or anything for the baby? You can't have a job at 14 unless it's paid under the table. I would think LONG and hard about what your options are. What about an open adoption? Abortion to me is not an option. That is just MY opinion though. What do your parents think? What do his parents think? How old is he?


thrilling - March 28

My mom prob. doesn't want me to kill it, but knows i really should. My dad... doesn't know yet, My boyfriends parents didn't seem to have much affect by it. But then again when i told them they were sick, my boyfriend is 16


Grandpa Viv - March 29

If you want you can contact your local Planned Parenthood at 1-800-230-PLAN. They are well qualified to help. I will chat with you if that will help. There are also organizations like BirthRight that have a single agenda. How many weeks do you think you are?


Paulaand SimonAdopt - March 29

Talk to your parents. I have a daughter and I wouldn't want her to go out finding an abortion clinic, or a crazy adoption agency.


Nickelbackgirl - March 29

So he is barely old enough to have a job. I'd say adoption for sure. Yes deff talk to your parents. Tell them it's your body and your decision and that you aren't comfortable with the idea of an abortion, but you want to talk about your other options with them.


thrilling - April 6

UPDATE: I had an abortion, My stepfather said he was going to leave my mom if i kept the baby, i cant handle an adoption and i cant handle an abortion but sumhow i got through it, I really regret killing it, :( my tummy feels empty and i feel alone


Paulaand SimonAdopt - April 6

Oh, I am sorry you had to go through this. Keep in touch with friends and the people that love you. Maybe you can share this with your mom... You tried to find the best solution, now it is time to move forward. Hugs.



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