Just Need To Vent

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Michelle - April 26

I am due May 12th and have had really no signs of the labor coming any sooner, no mucus plug, no contractions, not even dialated so my fiance decides to plan a 4 day trip to go see an old buddy in San Fransisco this weekend!! His excuse? "I wont be able to do this once the baby is here so I am getting it out of the way" Is it just me or is this the most selfish, stupidest thing you have ever heard? Its not like the baby and I have a contractal agreement and she wont be here before May 12th! Even if I have no signs, she could come right on out as soon as tonight. I almost think I should start pretending to have some signs just so he decides to act like a responsible father to be and keeps his butt at home. He will only be about a 45 minute plane flight away but if there is no plane scheduled for a particular time, or it is booked full, he still may not make it should something happen! Is it just me? Am I over-reacting or do I have justifiable cause to go home and tear him a new you know what?

 

PP - April 26

I understand your frustration and anger. I would not be happy in your situation. But the flip side is that he is right seeing his friends will be very hard once the baby is here. I know that its hard but remember that he needs to see them or he could resent you or the baby and men are really bad at being tied down and told no.

 

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