Pregnancy Hormones Or Would You Be Upset To

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mrs.sarge - January 20

Im 34 weeks and today was my birthday well my husband didnt get me nothing and it took him a while to even say happy birthday when he got home. Im not mad he didnt get me nothing but we didnt do nothing for my birthday although he does have a pretty bad cold but why couldnt he have rented a movie and watched it with me. Am being selfish for being sad and upset or should i be understanding

 

Honey Bee - January 20

HAPPY BIRTHDAY..No Im a person that thinks birthdays are special and should be celerated I agree with you that he should of done more then say happy birthday

 

mrs.sarge - January 20

thank you, i feel better that im not the only one who thinks im not being selfish. I just wish today could have been better. my mother in law done more than he did. He wants me to vac_me and wash cloths. What a day!

 

jb - January 20

Happy Birthday! I don't think it is selfish of you to feel that way either. I would tell him how you feel too. Ask him if he would like it if you forgot or ignored his birthday. I am like you, I don't need or even want a present for my birthday, I just want him to say happy birthday and maybe a nice smooch. :-)

 

mrs.sarge - January 21

he wasnt even nice

 

Annette - January 21

First of all, HAPPY BIRTHDAY. You are NOT being selfish; unfortunately, you have to be understanding; not saying that he did right, but that some husbands DO these things. Mine can be the most adorable person on Earth, he will please me on everything I ask for, but...I have to ask for everything, he will have no initiative whatsoever to surprise me... The last nice birthday present he bought me was exactly the birthday I had before getting married; he either gets me nothing or he gets me things that he wants (a DVD player, a camcorder...). Once he got all p__sed off because my friends showed up with a cake and he ruined the day by sitting there with his long face and being rude to everyone.... LOL, seems I am venting myself a little bit... I don´t know what to say, I would probably talk to him about this and make him make up for it once his bad cold is gone.

 

mrs.sarge - January 21

Well i tried talking, didnt go so well. He acused me of being upset because he didnt get me nothing. That kinda hurt my feelings but i told him not to because i dont need anything or want anything to me its the thought that counts but thats not even near why. Im hurt because i wanted to spend time with him because we dont do that much. Ide been happy at home watching a movie together. He said "I sat with you at your mom's" wow that was something. He hung up on me and cused and told me not to call him again. He's at work but not busy. (he loads trucks). I guess some things are better left alone although ive been upset and crying since last night. I thjought telling him would make me feel better it just upset us both. Thanks for listining or shall i say reading. Needed to vent.

 

Maggie - January 21

Happy Birthday Mrs. Sarge. This is not hormone related, your husband is being insensitive. I know that last year when my husband couldn't get me anything for my b-day he was so upset with himself that he inadvertantly made my day hell. I think he wanted me to fight with him because he felt so bad, which got me insanely mad b/c we have been married for years and he should know that I'm not that shallow. I would have been great with a nice dinner at home, a movie, and some good s_x. I was so upset with him that I didn't speak a word to him for 2 days, until he talked to some female co-workers of his and they set him straight. Your husband is probably feeling guilty for not getting you anything because most men think that is all we want, and instead of being angry with himself he is taking it out on you. I'm sure he''l come around so dry those tears, and think forward to six weeks from now when you'll be celebrating the birth of your baby.

 

Natalie - January 21

hey, id be upset if my dh didnt get me anything for my birthday! i spend loads of money and spoil him, so i would be crushed if he didnt get me anything! even a bunch of flowers is something. an.d to be honest i dont think it was your hormones, i would have been upset by that if i wasnt pregnant. it doesnt take much to make you feel special on your birthday, and a cold is a cold, he isnt carrying around a huge bump all he time! no wonder your upset. if that was me he would get nothing for his birthday, hey he wouldnt even get a word from me unless he at least made me a nice romantic dinner or did something special!

 

randi - January 21

Well i told him how i feel and maybe it got to him he thinks im mad because he didnt get me nothing, I was hurt because it felt as if he forgot me. Flowers and a movie at home would have been perfect. i d

 

randi - January 21

Well i told him how i feel and maybe it got to him he thinks im mad because he didnt get me nothing, I was hurt because it felt as if he forgot me. Flowers and a movie at home would have been perfect. i dont have a job as of now but when i did i paid rent and bills plus always spoiling him with gifts and things. I think hes forgot about that because i got $150 for my b-day and im bying grocerys tonight plus my car half my car tag. He drives it more than i do. My moms paying the other half for my birthday. I guess i feel like hes doing me dirty. I thought married people were supose to me suportive and work together, Im carring our wounderful baby around for nine months he could be understanding and caring every now and then. Some men need lessons on these things

 

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