Going Out Of My Mind Sorry It May Be Long

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BouncingBabyBoy - October 31

Okay so I have an 8 month old daughter Named Avery. I am going to have my second baby in december. Now my mom lost custody of my almost 3 year old little sister. Her dad, Marc, recently got relocated to a town upstate more. He has a wife and another daughter, they stayed here and he moved up there and comes back on the weekends. His wife can't take care of my little sister Lucinda. So he asked me if it was okay if she lived with us during the week. He sends us money and helps us when we need it. She has been with us for about a week. Marc and I are really close, You see my mom cheated on Marc when they were dating before I was born. She then got pregnant and told marc i was his because she didn't want him to know she cheated. When I was 16 nearly 17 I found out I was pregnant. I had some test done. They all came back with good results, but it said Marc and I weren't related. So anyways, marc and I are still close. So she is really hyper and is constantly screaming. Marc says that she has always been this way, because of my mom. I just don't know what to do. Marc will be upstate for another 9 months to a year and my mom wont be getting custody back. So She is like my daughter. She is driving me crazy!!!!!!!! She is screaming and following me. She even calls me Mama. It could be because my mom treated her like c__p. I need Help!

 

Erins Mom - October 31

Wow what a situation. I'm sure she's just reacting to being bounced around so much between homes, and the fact that your mom didn't treat her well. Try and be patient. I'm sure she is following you around constantly, she's probably afraid you'll leave her too! I know with her and your little one Avery your probably a little less patient than you normally would be right now and the pregnancy doesn't help (I'm due in Dec. as well). Set a schedule with her, be consistent (no matter what!!) with disipline and routines, etc. It really seems to help Erin when I do that. If you ever need to just vent feel free. I wish I had some great advice for you, but I'll send you lots of prayers!

 

BouncingBabyBoy - October 31

That is good enough advice for me! Thank you soooo much! Good Luck with your pregnancy!

 

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